GRINDING TOYS
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Sex toys showed below, some added to dildo and phallic prosthesis. Depiction of how some some grinders work. Shapes resemble human anatomy 2,3,4,6 | external stimulation 1,2,3,4,5 | partnered stimulation 2,5 | nudity 1,2,3,4,5
Page written and illustrated by Mush
Sex toys showed below, some added to dildo and phallic prosthesis. Depiction of how some some grinders work. Shapes resemble human anatomy 2,3,4,6 | external stimulation 1,2,3,4,5 | partnered stimulation 2,5 | nudity 1,2,3,4,5
Page written and illustrated by Mush
ITEM AND USES
Toys list in 100% platinum silicone with grindable features. They are external toys for everyone and may be especially enjoyable for some trans, intersex, disabled folks and they may help people who underwent surgery in the chest and genitalia area (for whatever reason, from affirmative surgery to cancer surgery and whatever anatomy) to stimulate the nerve ending and re-map pleasure in the area.
While they often are more accessible on the pleasure front, they may prove more difficult to clean from lube and fluids due the numerous concave spaces. Some of them have also insertable and/or penetrable features. Some of them feature pockets to add a bullet vibe.
They can be used in several different way, depending on preference and anatomy:
To not get confused with resin or metal grinders for smoking purposes. Most of the items listed are made locally, by small indie artisan workshops.
Toys list in 100% platinum silicone with grindable features. They are external toys for everyone and may be especially enjoyable for some trans, intersex, disabled folks and they may help people who underwent surgery in the chest and genitalia area (for whatever reason, from affirmative surgery to cancer surgery and whatever anatomy) to stimulate the nerve ending and re-map pleasure in the area.
While they often are more accessible on the pleasure front, they may prove more difficult to clean from lube and fluids due the numerous concave spaces. Some of them have also insertable and/or penetrable features. Some of them feature pockets to add a bullet vibe.
They can be used in several different way, depending on preference and anatomy:
- they are and addition to sensation play: they can be used to stimulate the body, especially nipples, the perineum (where nerve endings are present and is located the internal part of the phalloclitoris) and external genitalia.
- Some people may need a squishy protective layer on top of their external genitalia, due to a over sensitive area or dysphoria; Squishy cushions and pads may help with that, letting you using a vibrating toy over it, or allowing touch by yourself or with partners when you're not comfortable seeing your genitalia.
- Grinders and cushions can be placed on the base of silicone dildo and penile prosthesis to provide comfort or add pleasure to the wearer.
- Grinders can be stick together and go between partners's external genitals.
- Some pads can be rolled to jerk a phalloclitoris or two.
- Some toys can be strapped to a pillow or to a partner and be ridden.
To not get confused with resin or metal grinders for smoking purposes. Most of the items listed are made locally, by small indie artisan workshops.
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Reviews
Some of the toys are reviewed by queer content creators. You'll find specific reviews under each item. |
CUSHIONS
Find them searching:
Silicone rubbing adult toy, soft silicone toy, external toy, dildo base, dildo cushion, strap on cushion, intimate cushion, vulva cushion, trans woman cushion.
Full Shop & Makers list in the Links area.
Silicone rubbing adult toy, soft silicone toy, external toy, dildo base, dildo cushion, strap on cushion, intimate cushion, vulva cushion, trans woman cushion.
Full Shop & Makers list in the Links area.
Cushions can stay in your underwear or on the back of a bottom harness. They can be, on their own, a protective layer for sensitive areas or give some space to the person's genital (due to preference, disability, dysphoria or euphoria). If you need more surface to cover your external genitalia, try grinding pads!
Sili Saddle (Canada)
Sili saddle Cushion. Very flexible.
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Some toys are made entirely with the goal of not overstimulate the person. They may be helpful also to people dealing with, sensitive skin, chronic pelvic pain or are recovering from surgery.
Pelle (USA)
Flex | Whim
Super soft silicone cushions / gringable toys targeting bodies who don't enjoy to be overstimulated.
Flex | Whim
Super soft silicone cushions / gringable toys targeting bodies who don't enjoy to be overstimulated.
Cushions can be stick to the base of a silicone dildo, prosthesis or vibrating toys, adding pleasure or providing a cushion to the wearer. Silicone on silicone adhere good enough to not require other tools than a bottom harness or underwear. Different sizes fits different folks.
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Banana Pants (USA)
Honeybunch
Soft silicone cushion. Honeybunch model has space for a removable vibrator.
Honeybunch
Soft silicone cushion. Honeybunch model has space for a removable vibrator.
Banana Pants (USA)
Shagger | Bumpher
Specific design to go over the base of your harnessable dildo. The hole on the back is stretchable allowing various sizes (within reason). See this video on youtube to see how.
Shagger | Bumpher
Specific design to go over the base of your harnessable dildo. The hole on the back is stretchable allowing various sizes (within reason). See this video on youtube to see how.
- Written review: BumpHer by Kelvin Sparks
Trans Affirming Wear (USA)
Bug
Silicone accessory to be used with your strap-on harness. Featuring an accommodating pad with an indentation for your anatomy to squish into. The Bug has small raised nubs for added sensation. This toy was designed to center trans women's pleasure but can be enjoyed by everyone.
The image shows how bug helps keeping the person's genitalia in place, providing pleasure rubbing on the right spots (such the frenulum) while using a strap on. Bug goes between the body and the dildo base, while wearing a strap on harness.
Bug
Silicone accessory to be used with your strap-on harness. Featuring an accommodating pad with an indentation for your anatomy to squish into. The Bug has small raised nubs for added sensation. This toy was designed to center trans women's pleasure but can be enjoyed by everyone.
The image shows how bug helps keeping the person's genitalia in place, providing pleasure rubbing on the right spots (such the frenulum) while using a strap on. Bug goes between the body and the dildo base, while wearing a strap on harness.
GRINDERS
Find them searching:
Silicone grindable, grinder, grinding, rubbing toy, external toy, grinder sex toy, textured adult toy, dildo base, dildo cushion, strap on cushion, intimate cushion, vulva cushion, textured clit toy, perineum toy, nipple toy.
Full Shop & Makers list in the Links area.
Silicone grindable, grinder, grinding, rubbing toy, external toy, grinder sex toy, textured adult toy, dildo base, dildo cushion, strap on cushion, intimate cushion, vulva cushion, textured clit toy, perineum toy, nipple toy.
Full Shop & Makers list in the Links area.
Grinders can be used on their own, to rub on any of your sensitive areas (for example nipples, the perineum, the vulva, the phalloclitoris, etc). Smaller ones especially, can stay in your underwear or on the back of a bottom harness as displayed in the cushions section.
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Grinders or cushions can be, on their own, a protective layer for sensitive areas or give some space to the person's genital (due to preference, disability, dysphoria or euphoria). If you need more surface to cover your external genitalia, try grinding pads!
Those toys can be hold by hand. The grip or the positioning may be helped by the addition of a double sided suction cup (find them in the position aid page) on their flat side.
Using a suction cup, they can also be securely stick on furniture and be ridden. |
Two grinders can be put together by their flat side and go between the partners's genitals. A bit tricky to use them this way, for sure, but they will help fill the space inbetween bodies (this is described in the Betty Butch's review).
Faux Phallus (Australia)
Dahlia Silicone sensory toy. Various colors and firmness. Workshop operated by solar grid. |
Cute Little Fuckers (USA)
Starsi
Silicone. Easy to hold shape. Removeable and rechargeable vibrator. Made by queer and disabled designer. Illustrated suggestions sheet made by the maker.
"Transfemme vibrator seekers with genital dysphoria tend to enjoy Starsi for Starsi's ability to cover genitalia with a gently curved vulva-like feel, allowing us to map new genitalia and euphoria in our own mind."
Starsi
Silicone. Easy to hold shape. Removeable and rechargeable vibrator. Made by queer and disabled designer. Illustrated suggestions sheet made by the maker.
"Transfemme vibrator seekers with genital dysphoria tend to enjoy Starsi for Starsi's ability to cover genitalia with a gently curved vulva-like feel, allowing us to map new genitalia and euphoria in our own mind."
- Video demo: Toys 4 Fun, Fun 4 All: Starsi by AYLI Productions
- Video review: Starsi by Cute Little Fuckers Review by Milo After Dark
Cute Little Fuckers (USA)
Zeep
Silicone small textured toy. Removeable and rechargeable vibrator. Made by queer, nonbinary, disabled designer. Illustrated suggestions sheet made by the maker.
Zeep
Silicone small textured toy. Removeable and rechargeable vibrator. Made by queer, nonbinary, disabled designer. Illustrated suggestions sheet made by the maker.
- Video review: Zeep by Cute Little Fuckers by The Bed Post Show
Uberrime (USA)
Rosae | Alia
Soft silicone. UV reactive colors.
Rosae | Alia
Soft silicone. UV reactive colors.
- Written review: Tips & Review: How to Use the Uberrime Rosae, Alia, and Labae Silicone Grinders by Betty Butch
- Written review: Alia by Kelvin Sparks
Octophux (USA)
Tentitouch Soft silicone, sea creatures themed. Glow in the dark. Squishable and flexible. |
Model such the Alia, Fairy ring and Tentitouch (but also Blossom, Maul and other) can provide stimulation to the perineum area (whatever your anatomical set up is). A toys (suitable for you size) may be used to go over your phalloclitoris and the area around, pressing your external genitalia toward your body and rubbing, using hand motion.
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Sp0re Prints (USA)
Fairy ring Silicone mushroom themed, soft silicone available in various colors. Squishable and flexible. |
Toys like Fairy ring and Tentitouch can be wrapped around your external genitalia. This may be a open alternative to closed penetrable toys.
If you need more surface, consider the grinding pads. |
Pussy Punch Toys (UK)
Cupcake vibe Small toy. Silicone available in different firmness. It has a hole in the back for a bullet vibe. |
Noodle Crafters (USA)
Abyssal Tentacle |
PENETRABLE TOYS
Some toys have a penetrable, humpable features that goes along the grinding feature. It's very size/anatomy dependant.
Here a depiction of how a humpable/grindable works with different anatomies. The grindable features is for everyone, while it's size dependent for humping. This humpable toys are often offered in two sizes. A phalloclitoris of length over 4 cm would usually enjoy better the bigger size to penetrate, while a phalloclitoris under 4 cm, the smaller size. Under 1 cm length, this toy offers texture for grinding. The size of the toy depends on your preference. Silicone, especially very soft silicone, is slightly sticky and it can reasonably stay in its place on a flat surface or a pillow. Humpable grinders can be hold with hands too.
Some toys have a penetrable, humpable features that goes along the grinding feature. It's very size/anatomy dependant.
Here a depiction of how a humpable/grindable works with different anatomies. The grindable features is for everyone, while it's size dependent for humping. This humpable toys are often offered in two sizes. A phalloclitoris of length over 4 cm would usually enjoy better the bigger size to penetrate, while a phalloclitoris under 4 cm, the smaller size. Under 1 cm length, this toy offers texture for grinding. The size of the toy depends on your preference. Silicone, especially very soft silicone, is slightly sticky and it can reasonably stay in its place on a flat surface or a pillow. Humpable grinders can be hold with hands too.
Lycantasy (USA)
Serpent interface Soft silicone. Humpable and grindable. Available in two sizes, suitable for different sizes of external genitals. Lay it on the bed or other surfaces and ride it on top.
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Lycantasy (USA)
Xeno interface Soft silicone. Humpable and grindable. Available in two sizes, suitable for different sizes of external genitals. Lay it on the bed or other surfaces and ride it on top. |
Darker Horse Toys (USA)
Lover’s Rose Silicone. Grinding toy with a penetrable open tunnel for your phalloclitoris (under 2 cm) were you can insert also a bullet vibe |
GRINDING PADS
Find them searching:
Silicone grindable, grinder, grinding toy, grinding pad, pleasure pad, rubbing pad, rubbing toy, external toy, textured adult toy, straps pad.
Full Shop & Makers list in the Links area.
Silicone grindable, grinder, grinding toy, grinding pad, pleasure pad, rubbing pad, rubbing toy, external toy, textured adult toy, straps pad.
Full Shop & Makers list in the Links area.
They can be strapped to a partner too, on a thigh for example, for the other person to rub on their sensitive parts. In the picture two mushroom people on a bed with a cane nearby. One of them is wearing on a leg a silicone grindable pad for their partner to ride.
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They can be worn at the waist using one of the two straps and they may help creating a layer of separation between the person's genitals and pleasurable touch. The pad with the textured part facing down, will provide sensation to the wearer.
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Some of the flatter pads can be rolled on themselves and used to jerk a phalloclitoris's shaft of a length over 4 cm. Choosing soft silicone and an adequate size, they can be used on two shafts frotting together.
Fantasticocks (USA)
Rubbies Wave | Rubbies Peak | Rubbies Max
Soft silicone. Flexible. Custom colors. Comes with 2 straps.
Rubbies Wave | Rubbies Peak | Rubbies Max
Soft silicone. Flexible. Custom colors. Comes with 2 straps.
Uncover Creations (UK)
The tentacle grinders
The tentacle grinders
- Written review: Uncover Creations Tentacle Grinder by Kelvin Sparks (trans man)
GRINDERS WITH RINGS
Trans Affirming Wear (USA)
Peri
Ergonomically designed to deliver pressure and and stimulation to your perineum. Peri is an intimacy accessory that can be used alone or in combination with your favorite dildo to bounce and grind on top of. Soft silicone and a foam core. This toy was designed to center trans women's pleasure but can be enjoyed by everyone.
Peri
Ergonomically designed to deliver pressure and and stimulation to your perineum. Peri is an intimacy accessory that can be used alone or in combination with your favorite dildo to bounce and grind on top of. Soft silicone and a foam core. This toy was designed to center trans women's pleasure but can be enjoyed by everyone.
GENITALIA GRINDERS
This section will feature mainly vulva inspired fantasy toys, some designed by transmasc artists.
Indeed something inspired by a typical penis would be found in the dildo catalog [insert link], Tho you can still grind on them! Position aid tools or a suction cup base may help your ride.
This section will feature mainly vulva inspired fantasy toys, some designed by transmasc artists.
Indeed something inspired by a typical penis would be found in the dildo catalog [insert link], Tho you can still grind on them! Position aid tools or a suction cup base may help your ride.
Find the following designs searching:
Silicone grindable, grinder, grinding toy, vulva grinder, transmasc grinder, rubbing toy, external toy, textured adult toy.
Full Shop & Makers list in the Links area.
Silicone grindable, grinder, grinding toy, vulva grinder, transmasc grinder, rubbing toy, external toy, textured adult toy.
Full Shop & Makers list in the Links area.
Twilight Meadow Creations (Sweden)
Raido
They focus on monster/folklore inspired toys. Silicone grinder available in custom color mix. It features a hole for a removable bullet vibe. This workshop is trans-owned and this toy has been designed by a transmasculine person, aiming to make a grinding toy with transmasculine anatomy. Available also without the bullet cavity.
Coupon code: transmush
Raido
They focus on monster/folklore inspired toys. Silicone grinder available in custom color mix. It features a hole for a removable bullet vibe. This workshop is trans-owned and this toy has been designed by a transmasculine person, aiming to make a grinding toy with transmasculine anatomy. Available also without the bullet cavity.
Coupon code: transmush
The Prince's Court (USA)
Gabriel trans masc angel grinder model, modeled by nonbinary sculptor PrettyPours |
Paladin Pleasure Sculptors (USA)
Calypso Silicone. Available in two sizes, suitable for different sizes of external genitals. Lay it on the bed or other surfaces and ride it on top. |
TONGUE GRINDERS
Tongue inspired fantasy toys
Tongue inspired fantasy toys
Made to were (USA)
Monster Licker: Mauhl Silicone. Available in various colors. It features a hole on the back for a bullet vibe. |
Mandrillo's Toys (Italy)
Devil Tongue | Yoshi Tongue | Viper Tongue
Dual density soft silicone for the tongue, firmer for the base. Some models can be customizated with two holes for vibes on the flat end. Available in various colors. Comes with 2 straps.
Devil Tongue | Yoshi Tongue | Viper Tongue
Dual density soft silicone for the tongue, firmer for the base. Some models can be customizated with two holes for vibes on the flat end. Available in various colors. Comes with 2 straps.
BUST GRINDERS
Grinders shaped like fantasy, chests. With textures or more smooth.
Find them searching:
Silicone grinder sex toy, grindable, grinder, grinding toy, bust grinder, rubbing toy, external toy, textured adult toy, chest.
Full Shop & Makers list in the Links area
Grinders shaped like fantasy, chests. With textures or more smooth.
Find them searching:
Silicone grinder sex toy, grindable, grinder, grinding toy, bust grinder, rubbing toy, external toy, textured adult toy, chest.
Full Shop & Makers list in the Links area